While it could be true that women are hard to decipher and understand, knowing what goes on in a guy’s mind could be one tough task as well. To know if the guy is really into you or simply just being friendly, let us get you acquainted with some hints that would always come in handy.
You could say that a guy is into you if his body leans forward towards yours. It is his way to let you know that he really wants to get closer. This move could exist in the extremes: he could do this in a very subtle way, or he could be literally in your face. But however it is done, it ends with the idea that this guy is into you.
We all have heard the timeless “The eyes are the window to the soul”. And this proves to be true even in determining whether he likes you or not. If a guy is into you, he would look at you with those romantic gazes. You would know it when those looks are filled with romance. So, if you like this guy back, return those oh-so romantic stares with a quiet and sweet smile.
A guy likes you when he lets you feel his warmth. You would if a guy is into you if takes every opportunity to touch you (not in a sexually abusive way, of course). He would hold your hands or put his hand over your shoulder. Making his presence physical and affectionate is one of his ways to tell you that he is interested in you.
If you believe in serendipity or those so-called happy accidents, you should start thinking twice if it really is an accident. A guy likes you if he keeps on bumping into you, which could actually be planned. Maybe seeing him usually at your favorite coffee shop is his way to try to connect with you.
Another really cute sign to know if a guy is into you is if he’s nervous around you. Look for indicators like unexplainable laughter, sweaty palms, and fidgeting. Guys would like to be in charge, especially of their emotions. But if he has trouble doing that around you, chances are this guy is into you. Do not take this for granted though. Help him to relax and he would repay you by being the man you can lean on.
Certainly, a guy truly likes you if he listens. How do you know a guy listens? It is when he stops talking about himself. Try to listen to a table full of men talking to each other. Have you noticed a guy’s favorite topic? Himself, of course. But if a guy stops talking about himself, boy, he could be in love.
And a guy is truly into you if he would watch a chick flick with you rather than be at the stadium and watch a football game championship. It is a very important sign that a guy likes you if he wants to be acquainted with your interests as well. If he happily sits down with you to watch The Notebook, or never rants when you drag him to the mall to go shopping, he isn’t only into you but he must be a keeper as well.