It is never a bad idea to turn to your girlfriends for when confusion arises due to your current relationship. It can be quite daunting, having to go through these questions alone. Well now, apart from their advice, you can also feel free to look up for advice on the internet, seeing as this particular set of technology has become one of the more popular ones in this generation.
But even with all of this information as well as advice passed on from one pack to the next, it is still quite difficult to decipher the man code, isn’t it? There is no general or standard way to read into such things because what it comes down to is: there are no rules, only games.
That means you have to put yourself out there, but still have a few tricks up your sleeve, the last thing that you want to be is jaded and completely disconnected from the woes of society. You want to be in there, within the scene of all the flirting and mingling, and in order to do this, you have to keep yourself social and open. Those are two things that you have to remember for these kinds of situations.
Relationships are not the easiest to maintain. They require a grueling amount of time and attention, not necessarily the kind that you think you will enjoy. You have to know what you are getting yourself into, what kind of things you are signing up for before you get yourself into a relationship with anyone.
And sex is a whole other story all together. Yes, the two topics intertwine in the sense that you cannot exactly develop one without the other (this is just a general assumption, nobody panic). But there is a whole new game plan that has to be concocted behind closed doors. To be the whole package, women have to know how to be someone that can work around every aspect of the relationship.
This is also mostly why so many magazines have been flying off the shelf, topics such as “7 ways to massage your man” and “How to know if he is happy with you” being discussed by girlfriends left and right. It is comforting, it really is. To be told that there is a solution to every dilemma. But there is very little that can be done when you are already in the caught in the cross fire.
The thing about relationships, mainly, is choosing someone who respects you and deserves you. You can’t go through all of this trouble for someone who can’t appreciate what you are going to be doing for them. You need someone who laughs the same things that you laugh at, who can love the people that you love, who can smile at you the same way they did when you first met.
And going out there, that is a solid start. You can’t complain about not having a relationship if you all you do all day is lock yourself within the confines of your home and your responsibilities. Live a little.